Five Things Woman Do That Turn Off the Healthy Masculine
As many of you know, it's no secret that I'm a hopeless romantic that has turned into a hopeful romantic.
However, from traveling to 42 countries, living in 5 countries, dating men from all different ages to backgrounds to cultures, I've learned a thing or two about what is consistent about turning off the healthy masculine man that I think it's essential for us as a woman to recognize.
1) When we feel needy to the masculine, it comes off as ughhh this feels like an annoying habit or fly on the wall. This would be like us NEEDING a text message or demanding that the trash be taken out so that we are emotionally sane to be around. It would feel like when we
are trying to control them, expecting them to be here – there – everywhere. And trust me, I know this one so well as someone who likes to be the creator of my reality, I'd love to have a box that someone just fits into, but that isn't how relating works. Relating comes from the heart, and it cannot be controlled like many other areas of our lives! So become mindful of how much you are nagging, needing, and requesting within this as it screams a red flag of control in the long-term.
2) Being unable to communicate due to fear of being yelled at honestly, judged, maybe physically abused, AND some of us just lie to lie, which is not healthy or okay. However, the moment a lie is told, a little white lie or a big lie, it's over. For example, when I was $100,000 in debt, I felt so much shame, LIKE SO MUCH. And I remember I called one very financially successful guy friend of mine, and he was listening to me and said, "Colleen, where your dreams are taking you, this is so small." However, I was so afraid to tell men I was dating I had debt, and until I began to not lie about it, it was interesting the type of men I attracted almost immediately shifted. Even when my bank accounts were hacked, I went on a date, and I had a guy offer to give me cash, so I had access to some while my accounts were getting unlocked as they were frozen due to its severity! Like how sweet! I didn’t take the offer but I thought it was sweet.
3) To not show up on time or follow through on commitments we made with them because of womanly things. Time is essential to everyone, and when as women, we make a commitment on a specific time and don't follow through or COMMUNICATE A DECENT AMOUNT OF TIME BEFORE why we cannot follow through on commitments; this is a huge frustration point. Faithful men have worked VERY hard to be impeccable to their word, so when there is a commitment under do emotional, beauty, or random reason, is there an excuse not to show up or be late.
4) The constant questioning of what they are doing, where they are, or what is happening. This is SO CHALLENGING, especially as an intuitive because we can go "spy" on people even if they are not physically around us to see what is up or what is going on. Then we can FEEL things and make a lot of inferences that may be true. But the fact we are even at this place shows we are addicted to unhealthy patterns, and the true masculine will feel this and want no part of it. Because when they are with you, they will give you ALL OF YOU just as they expect when they are not with you to be giving ALL OF THEM – their presence to whatever task they are doing within their life at that moment
5) Emotionally vomiting – ugh, this is the worse. This is when as a woman, we are over-emotional, chaotic, not able to cognitively communicate what we are feeling, and we push ourselves over the edge to just begin bringing up all the past things, everything under the sun of what is wrong, and cause a drama. This happens when we feel hurt, betrayed, unseen, or just if we are unwell.
Each of these is a massive red flag to a masculine design, and it would immediately signal you are not ready for the relationship you are claiming you so deeply desire.
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