The Perfect Date For a Woman - How to “Do” it?
A lot of you who know me, know I don’t date.
That means I literally have an ever-growing list of men who want to take me to dinner and I’m always seemingly unavailable.
It’s quite impossible to get ahold of me.
I remember one guy wanted to hang out and it was like a three-week waiting period to even see me because I was doing “life things.”
I remember I told my girlfriends this and they were like you are literally impossible to hang out with, these poor men.
Yet there was the one guy I was so intrigued by.
I remember I met him in December 2018 and I actually thought he hated me, or I left a bad impression.
Yet we got to finally meet up on February 26th, 2021.
Now, what did he do where I knew I just had to hang out with him?
I knew we had to meet up, no matter what?
I think it was he just is always himself.
He’s fully okay with his energy, who he is, his lightness, his darkness, his Himness.
It’s just an energy you have a knowing I’m meant to be with this person and spend time with them.
You know that feeling I’m talking about?
I can feel it just by a text message, just by looking at someone, just you know.
It’s the same feeling you have when you’re about to go on a date, you just know you don’t really want to go on, yet you show up to it hoping it will somehow be great.
Well, this guy, I just knew.
And HOLY WOW.
Never in my life have I had a date like this.
I think it will forever be my favorite first date, he set the bar so high, the new standard for my new cellular memory to align to, he blew me away.
Frist, he asked for a list of places I like to eat, then he took his time to figure out where to take me, he found a place I’d never been.
From the very beginning he was luring me in, leaving me in suspense, waiting to see the surprise on my face, so it could light up and he could witness what he just activated in the female body, without ever touching me.
Very smart man.
WOW, from the moment I walked in blew me away.
The lightning, the openness, the music, the fresh air blowing through the lobby.
It had the going out night seen, yet the romantic dinner vibe, with a resort vibe, with we are safe, everything is good here,
I walk and find him waiting in a booth.
The hat and the blue eyes (God the blue eyes seem to follow me).
He looks straight at me.
And what I loved about previous men I dated was the way they looked at me.
YET HOLY BOY.
I HAD NOT EVEN SCRATCHED the surface.
The way this man looks at you, isn’t just presence, it’s full-on penetrating you from the whole masculine cellular system coming through this planet.
The way this man looks at a woman he truly respects and cares for, any women is BLESSED to experience this once in her lifetime, let alone as a life partner.
I had to fight my body back the whole night from wanting to jump on top of him, because the piercing penetration and presence he has on every ounce, essence, move, word, he’s ready to devour you into this divine place of total stillness and surrender.
The questions he asked just blew me open.
Yet he wasn’t asking the questions to get something out of me or become attached.
It was purely for me.
He wanted to see my every expression and his enjoyment came from the way my body would light up to communicate to him every thought racing through my mind.
His pleasure came from watching how my body moved and communicated, and this became his duty, to open me over and over again by not even touching me.
His fullness came from watching how my body moved to offer him answers to his questions, and his ego was fed knowing it was Him alone offering my body to move in this way.
I cannot get there without him. This is why men, we need you.
Again, he never even touched me, yet this is the art of how true Divinity works.
It’s hard to even share what we talked about, the places we traveled, the friends we made, the moments that turned into 13 hours.
It was a full-on sensation, that left me flying for a month.
He left me daydreaming, secretly wanting more, yet not chasing me or forcing time to shift in his favor to control a timeline of God.
He was something special, he was a gift.
Every time I think of date now, my left-hand sweeps across the top left of my hairline, to push my hair back and hold my head.
I tilt my head to the left and I go into a daydream.
I expand my mind out of my body into another world, biting my lip without even realizing it.
Dreaming of the next time I see him or 2.0 through another man.
Trusting that it might have just been that moment in time we experienced together.
Knowing it was everything my cellular structure needed to remember, this is confirmation truth, I am on the right path, as is He.
Because something so magical beyond what we can comprehend is about to occur in both of our lives with or without each other.
That is the unknown.
Yet trusting in the knowledge we both have that night to refer to always know the real love, the deep love, the Divinity to Source, laughter, joy, grace in differences it does exist.
It’s not just a fairytale, it’s reality.
That’s the true point of dating.
That’s the meaning to go on a “date,”
That’s the meaning to connect, love, and expect nothing in return.
It’s the complete polarity of masculine and feminine.
The dance.
The dream.
The point of a date turning into forever, because I’m always left craving more, and your always there as a mountain to feed me, open me, and your ego is forever fed because I keep returning to you without you ever needing to ask.
Because my devotion to you isn’t demanded, you’ve allowed it to be a forever craving where you surprise me every single time by delivering what I didn’t even know I needed.
That’s a date.
That’s the way.
That’s the journey instead of a transaction.
If you’re a man and you are desiring to understand how to cultivate this - I offered a 2 hour and 7-minute workshop all around How to Make the Awakened Woman Crave You
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Colleen Gallagher